Dating The Person You Are

Nobody truly wants to be alone. Although, some of us may be capable of enduring life alone more so than others, we all just really seek that one companion that fills all of our voids in life. The other half of us. We all know how difficult it can be trying to find the perfect connect to our soul. A soul search for true love is one of the biggest adventures in our life. Whether you're trying to explore it or it decides to explore you. Love is running the game and we're just pawns to it's hands. Check this!

Try dating yourself for a while. It's not crazy to say date yourself in today's society where people are allowed to marry themselves. To me that's taking dependent habitation a little too far, However, to each man his moral own, With that being said " Date yourself darling". Meaning. Discover the things you do and don't like. I know money can be an issue depending on your life's circumstances, but a lack of funds is an excuse as to not to explore yourself. You're moving to fast, slow your roll... What about the things you can do now. It doesn't cost you a thing to walk out the door and smell the fresh air. When was the last time you really just enjoyed life's free gifts? Have you ever just looked up and saw the clouds watching you? Have you just laid in the sun and let its rays penetrate and strengthen you? Hold on, slow down, you moving to fast. How does it make you feel to breathe free?

When you're dating yourself you're free from everybody's expectations. You can discover yourself in reading a book, a magazine, a sign, anything that triggers a mood in you is identifying with something in you. Explore it. Is it good or bad? Do you like it? Can you use it positively? Does it better you or does it degrade you? 

Slow down darling, you're moving to fast. I'm not telling you to cut off your current relationships. I'm telling you to cheat on your relationships with yourself. What to do with your relationships is another chapter of another story in a different book. This isn't just chick knowledge honey, this is life knowledge. Life is both masculine and feminine, we possess both traits. Sometimes as a woman you are forced to man up and as man sometimes to soften down. Not all parts of yourself needs transformed. You have been working on you since you were conceived, telling yo mama and the world what type of person you was going to be. How powerful are you in your highest self if as a fetus you made demands that the world obeyed?

That's all I will leave you with for now because you will learn... I can talk for weeks.... Peace!