You Are Royal

Didn't your mama always tell you not to worry about what them other kids say? Well if not, somebody did, and if not I'm telling you. Don't worry about what them other kids say. They don't see your worth because they can't see their worth. Know what your made of. Know what you want to be worth and fake it until you become your worth, plus some. We all make mistakes. We make our own mistakes and some mistakes we share with others. We create our mistakes.

Mistakes are healthy and essential to growth. Acknowledging the fact that you made a mistake, even if just to yourself, is acknowledging something unedifying about ourselves. Thank you universe for teaching me. Now what are you going to do to make sure you don't make that same mistake? A mistake is only healthy if something is learned from it. If nothing is gained from your mistakes then your bound to continue in the same way.
Royal Expectations is you embracing the ability to become the best you, you can be. Learning to love yourself on your level of content. If you can't be honest with yourself then how can you ever be you? Who are you? I know there's some hot heads that wanna say " I know exactly who I am". I say to you "Great" Because I'm still learning myself and I'm learning to love the journey on it's way!

How does the world see you? How do you see yourself? How does your family and friends see you? Are all these views the same person? I know you have to play the part in society, but why must you lose yourself in the process? Your job does not define your character. Your money does not create your worth. What type of person you desire to be is what determines YOU...

Stop mopping over who you use to want to be and start focusing on who you want to be. It's okay to change paths. Be happy that you were able to see that you were on the wrong path. Now what? Discover a new path, with new mistakes, with new lessons, just remember to follow your heart. Your heart knows the type of person you want to be. It pulls at you when you don't make the decisions you know that you should. The feelings you later regret.

No I'm not perfect, but I don't live in regret. I'm not saying regret hasn't tried to steal on me child. I'm just saying. The type of person that I chose to be don't wanna live in regret. It took some self reflection and some hell erection lol... but I came to peace with all of my pieces and I evaluated the reasons as to why I did or allowed what I did. I changed myself and therefore I my out come. Expect to be the best you you want to be. Nobody knows what pumps your heart unless you tell them, unless you show them. Own yourself. Sell your own brand of you, the only authentic seller of you is you. Sell yourself your own royal expectations by finding perfect equilibrium between the person who you are and the person who you wanna be. Go find yourself darling. We all have to take the journey of finding ourselves one day less you be lost forever.

Dating The Person You Are

Nobody truly wants to be alone. Although, some of us may be capable of enduring life alone more so than others, we all just really seek that one companion that fills all of our voids in life. The other half of us. We all know how difficult it can be trying to find the perfect connect to our soul. A soul search for true love is one of the biggest adventures in our life. Whether you're trying to explore it or it decides to explore you. Love is running the game and we're just pawns to it's hands. Check this!

Try dating yourself for a while. It's not crazy to say date yourself in today's society where people are allowed to marry themselves. To me that's taking dependent habitation a little too far, However, to each man his moral own, With that being said " Date yourself darling". Meaning. Discover the things you do and don't like. I know money can be an issue depending on your life's circumstances, but a lack of funds is an excuse as to not to explore yourself. You're moving to fast, slow your roll... What about the things you can do now. It doesn't cost you a thing to walk out the door and smell the fresh air. When was the last time you really just enjoyed life's free gifts? Have you ever just looked up and saw the clouds watching you? Have you just laid in the sun and let its rays penetrate and strengthen you? Hold on, slow down, you moving to fast. How does it make you feel to breathe free?

When you're dating yourself you're free from everybody's expectations. You can discover yourself in reading a book, a magazine, a sign, anything that triggers a mood in you is identifying with something in you. Explore it. Is it good or bad? Do you like it? Can you use it positively? Does it better you or does it degrade you? 

Slow down darling, you're moving to fast. I'm not telling you to cut off your current relationships. I'm telling you to cheat on your relationships with yourself. What to do with your relationships is another chapter of another story in a different book. This isn't just chick knowledge honey, this is life knowledge. Life is both masculine and feminine, we possess both traits. Sometimes as a woman you are forced to man up and as man sometimes to soften down. Not all parts of yourself needs transformed. You have been working on you since you were conceived, telling yo mama and the world what type of person you was going to be. How powerful are you in your highest self if as a fetus you made demands that the world obeyed?

That's all I will leave you with for now because you will learn... I can talk for weeks.... Peace!